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    23 July

    当爸爸的感觉

         在很早以前我就觉得家里有了小孩就和多了一个可爱的玩具一样,我幻想着摸摸孩子滑腻的皮肤,看看孩子熟睡或者哭闹的样子,唱支歌给孩子听也许他就会停止一切活动静静听着,嘴角也许会露出婴儿最原始的微笑。真正等现在自己有了儿子发现我虽然可以摸摸孩子,看着孩子熟睡哭闹,但是我感觉这个玩具可不是太好玩,我基本上是被他玩了。
         我一天的生活基本是从洗尿布开始又以洗尿布结束。小孩子经过差不多一夜至少也是几个小时的酝酿,肚子里早就憋足了东西。早晨醒来先尿上一泡,尿的不太多,但是足以尿湿两三块尿布,等快洗完的时候,好消息又传来了,孩子屙了。我心里想啊,你这孩子干嘛不能同时进行啊,你稍微调整一下老爹就少一半的工作量!一般半个小时内要再尿上几泡,小朋友从一生下来就学会了分阶段release。套用网友的一句话,这就是当爸爸的乐趣所在,让你一直忙着。小孩子哭闹的时候一般就是饿了,困了,大小便了需要换尿布了。哭的时候唱歌根本不管用,我觉得不管哪个大牌歌星都解决不了这种非常实际的问题。让孩子停止哭闹的途径非常简单,对症下药。饿了喂奶,困了抱抱,大小便了赶紧换尿布,动作还不能太慢了,否则人家会来气,哭声会由小变大,厉害的时候就会拳打脚踢。O(∩_∩)O哈哈~ 还好我家儿子不是那种所谓的“困难型”婴儿,吃饱了放到小床上,自己伸伸胳膊,蹬蹬腿,自己有时候傻笑一下,有时候头会转来转去的,眼睛好像能看到什么东西似的,朝一个方向盯着。他并不关心有没有人在他身边,谁在他身边,只要基本需求已经得到百分之百的满足,他会很安静。
         洗澡的任务一直是我来负责的,因为我毕竟受过培训嘛,老婆现在也不方便做这种事情!;-) 一般洗澡的时候宝宝都很享受的样子,一声不啃。把他放到水里,他会很紧张的小手攥的很紧,能感觉他脖子上用着力。偶尔会哭,哭的时候就意味着要出事了。一次我刚把他包后,左手扶着头,把他的身子夹在腋下,他就开始哭,然后我就觉得腰里有热的东西往下淌。尿啦!O(∩_∩)O~洗完澡,换上干净衣服,穿上纸尿裤,把他放到小床上,一会困劲就上来了,熟睡的时候用手摸他的小脚丫子,他是不会搭理的。
          每天睡觉和往常差不多甚至还要晚,早晨醒的比原来早了,晚上孩子哭的时候我还是会醒来听一听,虽然晚上的事情有老婆和岳母负责。早晨醒来第一件事情就是到另一件卧室看看儿子,可能这就是为人父所特有的牵挂吧!当爸爸的感觉--很幸福!

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